Hello Long Time Friend

Its been a while eh?

I think when we started this blog for Daniel is was to keep family and friends updated, then it kind of migrated into something that I used for my therapy.  It kept me sane, let me vent when people were not so nice, and kept me in contact with the other SNF (Special Needs Families).  I used it to keep up with Daniel's progress, and to hopefully help other families learn from some of our experiences.

Well in the past year or so, I  think I didn't need the therapy outlet as much, that I learned to just accept things (no not give up, but come to grips) that Daniel is Daniel and I cannot fix everything that people don't accept as 'normal'.  I believe in the last year, that I finally realized learned to say screw those people, that this is normal for us.  That Daniel is perfect the way he is and I am not trying to "fix" but now I am here to help him use his skills to the best of his abilities.  And believe me, he has many skills.

 No, he is not walking yet or talking in the way people consider 'normal'. 

Will he?      

Maybe.

When?       

 I don't know.  I don't care.

  

Do I want him to?      

Sure, who wouldn't want him to?

Will I feel he is less of a person because he doesn't do those things?  

Absolutely not.  He is remarkable in what he can do, and I am very proud of every single thing he does.

Does this mean I've given up?

Nope, I'm just refocused.  I still believe Daniel can do all these things, and he will in his time, when and IF he feels he can.  When I say refocused it doesn't mean that we aren't doing the same things as before, the therapies and such.  We are, but my end goal in not  HE WILL WALK, it is more along the lines of what can we do to aid him in moving, whether it be in a walker, stander, power chair, canes, rolling, crawling.  Physically he is probably going to always have some issues.  Ok....so lets move on....so what.  We'll deal with it.

Daniel talks.  Maybe not how your kiddo talks - I don't care.  He talks so many ways.  Eyes, expressive, pointing, nods, and of course his AAC device (ECO EyePoint).  So we will work on this a lot.

So to catch you up a little bit since I hadn't been needing the self therapy of venting on the blog.  Many things have changed, so I find myself back to writing the blog for therapy.

I'll just give you a brief little list of some of the changes

Daniel is now 6 years old.

We did some hippo therapy and some swimming, which we loved but because of medical issues we can't continue with that.

He started having seizures again, but BIG, SCARY ones. (the Infantile Spasms were indeed scary too .  Who am I kidding? - all types of seizures SUCK!)

He started taking Trileptal in additional to his other seizure medication (Vigabatrin) in hopes to get the seizures under control.

He is not in the public schools, he is considered 'home bound' and is doing home based school.

He still gets his Occupational, Physical and Speech therapy multiple times a week

I am still considered 'the at home mom' although it seems like we're never home.

I still work my little side business of making party crowns, so that keeps me busy in my down time.

I think I'll be updating more, not that anyone is still reading out there, but like I've said it makes me feel better to get my feelings out without taking it out on anyone in person :)  

Here are some photos with fun things we've been doing...

June has just SUCKED

Schools out and summer is suppose to be this glourious time, beautiful weather yada yada yada...

June SUCKED, its plain and simple.

Between me being sick and having surgery, recovering from the issues with that.  Daniel being sick, teething, doctors appointments and just not sleeping well.  Other peoples scheduled with the month of June....Therapies have almost been non existent. Speech WAS completely out because of his therapists surgery, I totally understand...shit happens....life has to make adjustments- COMPLETELY understand, when one of the therapists has to call off occassionally because of outside life issues.  I realise things aren't perfect and that they have lives that they need to take care of too, but I do not EVER attempt to make someone feel like crap.

But nothing is more crappy feeling than KNOWING you're missing all these dates-feeling bad about them, then for outside sources to make you feel guilty about it too.  Then there is no one to ask for help because the ones that you would trust with your child....have their own issues to worry about, or just simply are too busy to have to deal with your life.  Dad can't miss work or there is the possibilities that that would make you look bad at work and you'll be let go.

So what have I learned during June?  if your the stay at home mom, your on your own.  People tell you to take are of yourself cause if you don't whose going to take care of Daniel....well I understand that all fine, but its a matter of getting all those appointments to coexist with the other scheduled appointments and trying to figure out what your going to do with the little one while you are getting your exam at the doctor! Your that when your appointment is, is when you're suppose to be driving to another appointment or your child needs to be feed before driving to the next appointment.

Being at "stay at home mom" is kind of a weird title to be called....because sometimes I feel like I am a "never at home mom".

Yep another "bitch"post. 

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May June Update

Lets see if I know where to start to do updates

• Daniel is HUGE.  Well in my eyes anyways.  48" tall and 45-50 lbs  To me that is one big kid
• He just got Botox for the first time in both of his legs between the buttock and knee. 3 shots each leg (I believe a total of 125 was the dosage) and two shots in his left forearm to help with the bending in his wrist.  His hips look good...according to the dr.
• We haven't been to speech therapy in about 6 weeks because his SLP had some medical issues but we are hoping to get back into it very soon
• We got his EyePoint and are hoping to get heavily into it with the SLP again.
• He has used the Spider Cage a few times at PT/OT but we've missed a lot this last month as Daniel and I have had some medical issues.  Also the therapists had some end of the school year things with their kiddos or just vacation time.
• Had our IEP.  SIGH!  As far as I can say right now it turned out pretty good with the help of the advocate.  Daniel will be in general ed class with a total of 30-90 minutes a week in the special ed class.  He will have two hours a week of adaptive gym from outside sources because they are not equipped to do it.  So we are currently doing horse therapy and swimming, fully paid for by school district.  They are also modifying the school areas and getting equipment that will be needed for Daniel.  They do not have other children like Daniel. Although to throw a big "oh crap" in there, the class just got changed from a 1/2 day to a full day - I am not sure how we are going to be able to do this.

Other than that....we are about the same

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WE GOT IT!

Well we camped out at the front door for a little over a week (actually a shorter period of time than I expected!)

Then around 4 p.m. on Thursday Mr. Fed Ex guy came and knocked on our door!  Talk about jumping for joy.  I knew immediately what it was - Daniel just saw a box and figured it was for him because that's the way it usually goes so he was excited either way!

But then when I opened it up and started pulling it out, his eyes got real big!  It wasn't in our house for more than 15 minutes before it was unlocked from shipping mode and calibrated to his eyes.  Add on two more minutes for me getting it hooked up the the table top/floor mount and Daniel was "talking" up a storm!  I damn near cried.  

After a very very very log process (over a year) and quite a few sleepless nights by myself AND his speech therapist (Ms. Pat), we got what Daniel needed--correction, we got what he deserved, what he rightfully should have, what he PROVED he could do--he got his voice!

I have never met a company that was so very willing to help us each step of the way as PRC is.  From the Sales Rep for Michigan - Gabe, who is willing to bend over backwards to help with programming, and getting things sets up, to training.  Yes I KNOW its his job and you might say he is just doing his job, but its far more than that in my eyes - he CARES - he talks to Daniel, shakes his hand every time he sees him, asks him how he's doing.  He just ROCKS.  He has dropped stuff off at our house, and he has even come out to Grand Rapids when we were there.  He has hooked us up with other people who can help us out along the way....just above what a sales rep has to do.

Then the group at the office of PRC in Ohio - from financing, help desk,  upgrades to shipping & receiving.  I have not met anyone on the phone or email for that matter who has not been more than helpful.  Through the whole process that Daniel's device was there getting upgraded they kept me up to date through email, sending me the tracking information when it shipped!  

I actually spoke last week with a woman who was very disappointed because they purchased an AAC device for their daughter that has the eye gaze technology with DynaVox.  Now mind you I am not badmouthing DynaVox, I have seen many children use it and it works wonderfully for them.  And I am happy that it does.  What is good for one child does not mean its good for another child.  All I am saying is make sure to check all your avenues.  The mom said she tested out the PRC ECO2 w/eye point and had success but because the school district she is in had more experience with the DynaVox they went that route figuring if she could use the eye gaze with one it would be the same with the other company.  Unfortunately she found out after the fact, the camera on the DynaVox that reads the pupil is not as big and strong as the ECO2.  While the DynaVox is good for a child with good head control, it is not great for a child who tilts the head or has the spastic movement.  The camera in the DynaVox has to have two pupils to read and they have to pretty straight and level, not so with the ECO2. It can read just one pupil, your head can be tilted or pretty much upside down for that matter!

So sadly to say the mom is trying to sell her device to get something that will work for her kiddo.  The reason I am telling you all this...is in hopes that you realize before its too late and a mistake is made.  Do your research, test EVERYTHING out, and make sure you are getting what your child needs.  We originally went with the ECO a couple years ago because the touch sensitivity of the screen was much lighter for Daniel's touch, and the overall screen area was larger so he could have more area to select with larger buttons (8 cells to the screen).  We are now working on 45 cells with the EyePoint, I don't think it will be long before we are moved up to more cells.  But for now, I am happy to have expanded his choices in conversation by 37 cells!

He is already jabbering all the time, since we've gotten it he tells me what he wants to watch on TV, what he wants to play with, tells me in the car that I am driving to slow, that there is a red light, the colors of the trucks and cars that are going by - and that the big semi that drove by was "stinky".  He has greeted people that come into the house - his hairdresser that comes over to cut his hair - and he even asked her if she would cut his hair.  She was tickled pink,AND when she answered him back, he was equally as excited.  He has also said hello to Aunt Ann when she came over.  He was able to Skype with his sister Brittany who is at college.  It is all very wonderful and emotional.  I know - silly to get emotional over Daniel sitting in the backseat telling me the truck is stinky - but yep, that's me;  the weeping lady in the car driving!  And he is as much of a backseat driver as my daughters!

There isn't anymore guessing on what he is saying...

I don't think I can program pages fast enough for him to tell me all the things he has been trying to tell us for the past 5 years!

UNIVERSAL EXERCISE UNIT

I am so excited.  I found out recently that the facility where Daniel gets his PT/OT is getting the "Universal Exercise Unit" also known as the "cage"or "spider cage"

I have been wanting to try this out with Daniel for so long but the cost of doing it was out of our reach at the time.  It involved having to go to a different therapist and facility and I just wasn't willing to do that.  So imagine my excitement when I was told we'd be able to get it with the therapist we love!!

If you aren't familiar with this type of therapy, check it out here.  

How cool is that??  I CANNOT WAIT!!

Hopefully they have it soon....and hopefully Daniel does well with it.  I am sure pictures are to follow- good or bad! 

check here for more photos and information of how it works.

Special Fathers

I am sure many of you that stop by hear have read this recently as it is going around our "groups". When I find things that hit close to home, I like to post them on here so years from now I can look back. I also look at them when I have having one of those hard days, weeks, months.... so take a minute to check it out.

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Special Fathers

By Patrick Kane

While I may not know many of you personally, I know your daily routines; your daily dreams, your daily fears. In a crowd of hundreds, I can spot you in an instant; your lines and wrinkles caused from years of worry and stress crammed into weeks and months of your new life you didn’t ask for and never saw coming. You have dealt with this stress and become a stronger, better father because of it. You have learned the true definition of the words “advocate”, “father” and “coach”. Yes, you are Fathers of special needs children, and you are my Brothers.

Each of us had the same hopes, dreams and plans for our children. And, each of us has had to deal with the instantaneous reality that our child will never know life in the same way we dreamt for them. We have had to accept the realization that we may never see them walk, hear their voice or share their thoughts. Some of us know that we will never see our children go to college, walk down the aisle or become adults. And, we’ve done it all while trying to find the small things that give us hope and laughter and get us through one more day.

We’ve changed our work schedules, taken new positions, asked for demotions or taken new jobs, all so we can be there for our child that can’t go to normal daycare or have a neighborhood babysitter. We’ve dealt with the disapproving looks and judgment of other “men” who put work before family and don’t understand the decisions we make, and don’t care to.

We’ve gone days on just hours of sleep because our child had fevers, seizures, feeding tube disorders, infections or reactions to a “new” medicine. We’ve had to administer the shots ourselves, hold them down for leg brace fittings and comfort their screams of confusion and pain. We’ve bargained with God to give us the pain and illness so our child wouldn’t have to feel it. We’ve watched them go through countless procedures from EEG’s to Chemotherapy. We’ve taken them across the country to see the specialist that we believed would have “the” answer.

We carry them when there are no handicapped entrances. We hold them during movies, meals and church. We carry them to bed each night wondering how we ever managed the day. We kill ourselves at the gym hoping that we will stay ahead of father time so we will always be able to carry them when needed . . . wondering who will do it when we are no longer able.

We can meet with doctors, school boards and politicians and equally understand the medical terms, IEP schedules and new legislation that will better enable our children. We are adaptive chameleons who can fight battles on numerous fronts at the same time, and win each battle because for these children, failure is not an option.

We’re no longer little league coaches or ballet dads, we have become a coach on a new front: The art of coaching them how to lift their head, how to swallow, how to roll over, and how to crawl. We have become the physical therapist at home, creating boot camps in our living rooms, basements and back yards. We push our children beyond what others expect of them. We still push for them to play. We still push for them to be productive and self-sufficient. We still push for them to touch sand, grass or water without screaming. We do these things because we know the fabric from which they are cut . . . we’ve learned they got it from us.

We’ve learned how to build adaptive toys that are overpriced and under produced. We’ve scoured the internet for plans on how to build “tiny rooms” for the visually impaired. We’ve learned how to build shade canopies to fit their adaptive chairs out of John Deere parts so we can take them to the park with the other kids. We’ve learned that Mylar balloons are not just toys to be given on birthdays and that emergency blankets are not just for emergencies, but adaptive equipment that can be used for sensory therapy, vision therapy and fine motor skills.

We’ve learned to deal with the curious looks from other parents, or the child who asks innocently what is wrong with our child. We’ve learned to confront those who like to pretend our child is not present or that we do not exist. We’ve learned to stand up and speak for our children when they are discriminated against. And, yes, we’ve learned that to us sometimes it is better to pretend that those people do not exist.

Some of us make the lone trip to the cemetery to visit the child who could no longer carry on the fight. While there, we talk with them and tell them about our days. We continue asking in our prayers that they can now run and play, chasing butterflies, fishing with grandparents and catching balls. And, we do it all without shedding a tear…at least not that others ever see.

We know that by placing a hand on our brother’s shoulder, we are comforting him more than words could ever do. We don’t need to discuss our problems to understand what each of us feels, but we are always here for each other should the time arise.

We aren’t just fathers; we are fathers of children with special needs. We are better people for having these special kids in our lives. We are better fathers because of kids like these. I, for one, am proud to have you as my brothers, and proud to have a special needs child.

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(No worries, I got permission before I published this in its entirety, so I am not breaking any rules-----well at least any that I know of!)

New Toy - ANYONE can use - DaGeDar

As we all know, I am ALWAYS looking for toys that Daniel is able to play with, so you know where this is going to be leading....

Although Daniel may not be able to use it the way it was meant, I always look at toys and see how they can be adapted for the Special Needs kiddos. This one looks like it could be, mind you he would probably still need minimal help, but he could play along with the other kids. It seems like it would be cool, and for those of you who have to buy the adaptive toys from the speciality stores you know that those cost an arm and a leg!

When a toy comes out that isn't labeled for SN, but is able to be used....I'm always checking it out.

Of course the makers probably weren't thinking about the therapeutic benefits when they created it,  I am the mom am!  Just off the top of my head - hand/eye coordination, eye tracking as the ball goes down the track, grasp and releasing...I'm sure you guys can think of other things too!  Then how therapeutic is it to just be able to play along side the other kids?!

From what I read on the site, there will be many different battle balls to collect, each one having "special powers".  Check out the commercial - see the toy in action.

 Now, just the wait until its released! ;)

Ride'em Cowboy!

Three weeks ago Daniel started therapeutic riding at OATS.

When I told people, some of them said "oh he'll love it", others said I was nuts.  He had sensory issues and tend to freak out on things - well crap wouldn't you too if a huge animal was coming at you?  

WEEK ONE:  BEFORE WE GOT ON THE HORSE - LIFE WAS GOOD

There was some screaming and crying when it was his time to get on the horse.  This is where I made him tough it out.  I told him he'd be fine, although I don't think he believed me.  He made it through about 40 minutes of riding, if you can call it that!  Most of the time he was doing this

 and this...

 I finally figured out what he was doing...he wasn't tired, he was looking down and under his arm to see the horses that were following behind him.  He wanted to make sure they weren't coming after him.  Once I told the people walking with him, they moved him to the back of the line of horses and he sat up..

 The posture wasn't great ( Sorry to all his therapists that work so hard on proper posture!)  We were just happy he was not screaming at this point.  As you can see we started to get little smiles

WEEK TWO:

  He was excited all day when I asked him if he was going to ride his horse again.  Until we actually pulled up and went into the stables.  Then he started freaking, but as soon as they put him on the horse...not a peep out of him!  He was all smiles and lasted the whole session. Boy it was a little rainy and chilly.

WEEK THREE:  All week anytime Daniel saw a horse or we made mention of a horse he was all smiles and got excited.  Wednesday morning came and I asked if he knew what happens on that day, he smiled and showed excitement when I told him.  Week three, I am happy to say there were no tears at all, he was excited as can be, but I think he was still a little nervous because I could feel his legs shaking before he got on the horse. But he WANTED to get on.

 AND HE LOVES IT!!!

 Here he is being cool and NOT holding on - giving mom a heart attack!

  This is AFTER he stopped being upset because he had to GET OFF the horse.  He kept whimpering and saying "on - on-on". Do you think he likes it??

So we drove by and said goodbye to the horses.  Until next week.....and I am sure he is counting down the days until Wednesday.

I love when he works through things that he is afraid of.  I am so proud of him, it seriously brings tears to my eyes.

1) because he is doing it and liking it.

2)cause he can do something that is fun and be just like any other little boy. 

3) Its therapy and he doesn't even know it!!! 

4)he worked it out, and pushed through being afraid.

So, so very proud

My Baby Clothes Boutique Review & Giveaway-CLOSED

I  have to say, I love Daniel to death.  He is an awesome little boy, but when it comes to finding cute clothes for him, I've just about given up.  I'm always looking for things that don't make him look like a baby, but also that are age appropriate. If you ask his sisters, I tend to dress him to young for his age.

So imagine my excitement when I was asked to do a review for "My Baby Clothes Boutique". 

 Don't let the name mislead you, they have items for the bigger kiddos too! Boys and Girls!

But I must say I kept getting side tracked with the little girl things. (We're going to be having little girl in the family soon, so I was imagining all the things we could get her. NO its not me, but my daughter is!).

They have the cutest little tutus!  Oh then look at the headbands.  Oh my gosh all the different baby clothes, and what awesome little things to have your kiddos wear for their first years pictures! Well when I got to the hats, lets just say I KNEW right away what I wanted to order!

They shipped it out and we got it uber fast!  The customer service is impeccable. When I opened it up, I just about melted - it is the cutest darn thing I have ever seen.  For forget that I don't have a little girl to make into a darling diva, I've got a little boy that I can make into my own Dapper Dan!

HOW STINKIN' CUTE is this fedora??  He wants to wear it EVERYWHERE even if it doesn't match his outfit.  Someone is always complimenting us on it and asking where we got it!

For all of you out there who have been searching for that just right outfit for your little Dapper Dan or Darling Diva, search no more!  

Would you like to win $25 FREE to purchase any item or items in their cute little clothing shop? There is so much I want  .  If you'd like to win, and I know you do, just follow the instructions below.

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Goodbye ECO....for now

Today is a big day.

We ship off Daniel's ECO14 back to PRC

They will then modify his original AAC device to be able to handle the ECOpoint.

I am so excited, I don't think I'll be able to wait the next few weeks for the modifications and upgrade. I want it NOW!! Let me rephrase that....I want it last year!!!

But I cannot wait to post more of these types of videos like this one.

And one of my all time best feeling ones here.  You can find many more throughout the blog but I think these are among my favs.

I cannot wait, as I am sure Daniel cannot wait to voice his opinion.  Hopefully it comes back quickly.  I want him to be rockin' it for the beginning of the school next year so he can blow the pants off everyone.

So PRC People who have never let us down yet.....we are sitting at our front door starting next Monday biting our nails and waiting patiently! :)

This is the face he will be making when the package arrives...He gets so excited when we get packages...he knows they are ALWAYS for him!

Then get ready cause he's got 5 years worth of stuff to be blabbing about!

By the way PRC devices are very cool, make sure you check out how they helped out this little girl who has the exact same thing as Daniel but on a different degree.  She was our inspiration along the way.  Fighting Monsters with Rubber Swords.  Awesome blog, also has a wonderful book out there.  The dad is pretty cool too, I find him hilariously funny.  He wrote about Daniel back in the day when we met him in cyberspace.

So on a side note, always check all your options for AAC devices, they are not all the same! Remember to always find out about the customer support/reps too, because you will need help and if they aren't good...the device isn't going to help you much either.  By the way I can hook you up with a great speech path and PRC rep.  I believe you will find along the way too the I have mentioned that they rock too (almost as much as Daniel!)

Wonders Will Never Cease...

After over a year of fighting the AAC battle with insurance we have WON!  I can't say THANK YOU enough to our SLP, and the others who helped along the way!!

Can I hear a  Woot Woot?

If you haven't followed or if perhaps I didn't post about it (very likely lately) - we have been trying to get Daniel the EyePoint for his ECO AAC device.  The upgrade came out within a couple months of us getting his original ECO.  Immediately we started the process after seeing Daniel try it out when a rep came to speech one day (see video here).

Well of course the process is usually a few months, but then you have the cases lately with the economy and state cuts they try to make things even harder for you.  So we got "requests" for more documentation showing the Daniel was able to understand what was being asked of him, when his language skills were.  You can read more about that here.  We went through this "request for more documentation" multiple times, which of course gives the insurance company another 45+ days to "review" the new information, or "review" the data that was already in the report sent to them in the first place.  Just a big ol' pile of poop that they serve you to get you to hopefully give up and go away.  Well, they obviously didn't realize that we don't go away. So we keep giving them what they asked for and more.  We had letters from doctors, test results, videos, just about anything you could think of.  Then in October of last year we got the final "DENIED" letter.  

DENIED??  Are you kidding me?  So I wrote in for an appeal (first time I'd ever done one), which had to be done within 30 days of the denial date. My question is here is why do they get to take forever to do it but I only have 30 days?  Anyways, I sent in the paperwork and waited to hear some thing back.  In December I still hadn't heard anything so I called them.  Odd, they couldn't find any paperwork saying that we appealed. 

After a few not so kind words on my part, I immediately faxed to them the original request.  After a long time of getting the run around and repeated calls from me (almost weekly) to check the progress of our appeal, we were pulled to the top of the pile and a date was set.  That office had to be sick of me calling that is all I can think of, or that when I called I would say "Happy Monday!" and end with "Ok I'll talk to you later this week to see how things are going!"

So we had our date this past Monday.  Had to meet at our SLP's office which is normally 25 minutes away but of course we had a blizzard.  YEP a mini blizzard in mid April. Not a good sign.  Took us a little over an hour to get there.  The "mediator" read one letter that our neurologist had sent to them the Friday prior (which can I add was also in the original paperwork that was sent in over a year ago, just re-dated but had the same information in it), and the frickin' insurance lady says "We retract our denial, and approval the upgrade to his device"  

MONTHS AND MONTHS OF FIGHTING, FILLING OUT PAPERWORK, TESTING, STRESSING, SPEECH THERAPIST BUSTING HER ASS AND JUMPING THROUGH HOOPS TO GET WHAT SHE KNOWS DANIEL NEEDS, and you all of a sudden decide to retract?!?!?!

To say that we all sat there with a dumbfounded look on our face would be an understatement.  But oh well - the end result, we got what we wanted.  What I learned; they will keep requesting and denying and hoping that you will go away, just forget about it.  What I hope they learned - Don't mess with Pat (SLP) or Daniel's parents because we DON'T give up!

Now, if you'll excuse us - we are still doing our happy dancin'